well when i press escape for menu(esc) i cant see the freeplay,multiplay,torishop ect ect who i can play online like this? or plz help me

You need to update your graphics card driver. It happens if the driver is horribly out of date.

ok but anyway i can update by downloading some progams like direct x

nah, you need to update your drivers. what videocard do you have?

you have a mac or pc?

pc windows xp professional

merged ~SF

and update my video cards means i have to buy a better video card?

tell me, what company makes your video card?

sorry i dont know but how i can know it?