I really wouldnt say this is discussion material, but Ill go with it.
Listen. Wherever you go, no matter many games you go to that are multiplayer, theres always going to be people that like to scam, hack, complain, flame, and be a general douche. If your mature you can handle it in a proper way. Complaining about it wont help anything. Leave it so moderators, admins, etc. to deal with certian problems.
Also you have to understand that new people are not used to the toribash community. They are possibly just little kids that have no idea what they are doing. What people should do is do thier part to help out the new players and get them used to the community so they dont mess up.