Oh, hey, this thread. Yeah, this really shouldn't be here. But anyway...
Turbinia, if you're still even looking, you should really just search around for the newer clans. They're your best bet. Also, try for official clans before you go for unofficial, they've got better stuff, such as their own server and their own subforum.Go to Toriclans, then "List Clans". The ones that aren't in alphabetical order, at the bottom, are the newer ones.
Click their name, then click "Click to see forum".
They'll probably have a thread for people to post if they want to join. Find a clan that looks like it has your kind of people, and post there. Then patiently wait for a response. If they say yes, grats. If they say no, find another clan and try again.