I only know how to set a mod (/set mod modname.tbm)
but i dont know how to set the match frames , turn frames , ditance and dq time out
so pls help.

use the search fuction on the forums, they're plenty of threads listing them. This isn't related to mods, but if you had a question that was, you should post it in the thread titled "mod questions here".

anyway....
here's the best answer i could find:
http://forum.toribash.com/showthread.php?t=44281

I already used the search fuction , but i dont find anything and thx to u for u re fast answer